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It’s Official!

I’ve just had the most amazing weekend…
On Saturday night, Greg popped the question… it’s true … he’s making an honest woman of me. I have to admit it was such a surprise, as it happened on the day of his brother’s bucks night…and it caught me totally off guard.
He proposed at a little cafe off the famous Lygon st in Mebourne… called Brunetti’s. Which means nothing to anyone else… but for Greg and I it’s where we fell in love over Italian Hot Chocolate. He proceeded to blind me with the most gorgeous ring I have ever seen. I was telling him it is so much better than anything I could ever have picked. He’s certainly very clever!
Then he whisked me away to a new Art Hotel in Melbourne called “The Olsen” where we spent the night in the Penthouse with a view overlooking Melbourne city, and sipped champagne in the hot tub on the balcony under the moon. How lovely huh!?
In case this wasn’t enough, he had also booked a “Couples Massage” at my favourite spa the following day… and the girls there were so excited for us. To top it all off we had a gorgeous dinner at the restaurant of our first date, but this time with all our family to share the exciting news.
So I have to say I was overwhelmed with romance, and feel so humbled and spoiled. I still catch the sparkles of the ring out the corner of my eye and have to pinch myself to know it’s true.
But as I was saying to a friend of mine yesterday, it feels like a little corner of my soul has relaxed. It’s so divine.
To all of you who have left us beautiful messages on facebook and in the inbox… thank you so much. Your support over the last three years has been wonderful, and we really do feel that this is a celebration not just of our love of each other, but all the wonderful people who are a part of our community. You guys make it all worthwhile and special!
Here’s to partnership, love and magic!
Arriba! Mexican Fiesta!
This week has been a flurry of activity as I’ve spent most of it with my MDM people here in Sydney.
At the weekend we had the Annie Stoker event which totally rocked! This woman is a magician at shifting mindset, believe me.
And then this week, still on Bondi. we had the Million Dollar Masterclass Acceleration Session. See all the crazy pics from our Mexican Fiesta night…

All the MDM groups have been amazing and this one is no exception, in fact it’s more special than most because it’s the last time we are running the MDM programme. That’s because Greg and I want to focus on our family and a mentor group needs love and nurturing – as do children. So that’s why we’ve spent so long systematizing everything so we can still offer the same content but with less of me. That’s cos I’ll be spending time being a mummy! Although not just yet…
Back in Sydney…
Greetings from Sydney!
Greg and I flew back into Australia on Friday, a bit earlier than planned but we wanted to acclimatise before the wonderful Annie Stoker event in Bondi Beach this coming weekend.
I have to admit, I do so love Bondi Beach!
Isn’t it just a great place? Makes me happy to be home. That and the good coffee. I do crave my coffee especially in winter. Saying that, it’s hard to believe it’s the middle of winter over here because the weather is still fairly warm. Don’t you just love Australia? (And I hold nothing against the UK except the weather…..)
So now’s the time of year when they start to release the big blockbusters. Going to the cinema is such a treat. Just out is The Karate Kid which stars Will Smith’s son, Jaden, as well as Jackie Chan who plays the eccentric martial arts mentor. I went into the movie thinking nothing could match the original but I loved it!
The ironic thing is that the remake is not actually about karate at all – it’s set in Beijing and is all about Kung Fu. Why still call it The Karate Kid though?
Who knows? Still, it’s one of the best coming of age stories around and teaches us a lot about the power of restraint and mercy over violence.
Very philosophical.
Now is the time – it’s never too late…
Hello
I hope you enjoyed the weekend just as much as we did. Were you one of the world audience of millions who watched the World Cup Final? I have to confess I’m not a huge footie fan and did need help on the off-side rule, but the World Cup final is a once every 4 years event and surely worth watching….
It wasn’t a beautiful match but what I loved about it was that after years and years of potential, Spain finally got their reward. Unbelievably Spain had never made it past the quarter-finals before 2010 and yet each World Cup, their team have always been lauded with compliments – they have most talented players, they play the most beautiful football, they’re a joy to watch, they surely must do well…. And yet tournament after tournament they flopped. When would they ever fulfil all that promise?
The answer is it’s never too late to fulfil promise and talent. It’s just a matter of putting the correct system around your natural skill-sets. Spain learnt that raw talent wasn’t enough – they needed a framework around it. And that’s what they did. They put the systems in place to unlock the talent and make it flow. And now look – they’re finally world champions!
So, the message I got from watching Spain as they celebrated wildly was one – the Spaniards sure know how to party and two, never give up on your dream! If you know you’ve got natural raw talent, and you’re still not making it, what business systems do you need to put around yourself so you too can reap the reward?
Talking of parties, check out my pics from our time in Surrey last week. Our team had a week of post-event work in a gorgeous converted barnhouse. We got a lot done and we also had a lot of fun…

On a tough day…
I took my first kung fu lesson last night. I have never worked so hard. The instructor said that I would feel very sore today. Oddly enough, I don’t…
Why is it that pyschic growth (for want of a better way of putting it) hurts so much more than physical growth. I swear to God there are times in my life where I think I am totally going mad. Am I the only one? It forces you to consider all your assumptions and reconsider all the decisions you’ve made.
A friend of mine said today that you know when things are not right because your internal chatter goes through the roof. Monday my brain was like Toni and Guy on late night Thursday with the champagne flowing. Talk about chatter. Since about 1pm today it has been remarkably quiet. Perhaps the boil has been lanced.
I guess we all go there. Have moments off centre – we watch ourselves wandering from the path and wonder why on earth we started to ignore the signals (usually months ago). Thank God for the tough love friends that call us on it. I personally just wish I was “enlightened” enough not to hurt them along the way.
They say in kung fu that the pain eases with training. Maybe its the same in life- you play at life, you will get hurt, you will feel pain, you will do things you think you can’t and in the end it’s only because you grow. And they say growing is good.
Funny- it’s like why did the chicken cross the road… to get to the other side.
Why did the human being hurt… to get to the other side?
To all the friends I have ever hurt and all the friends who have hurt me – thank you.
(But I would prefer to get my arse kung fu’ed any day of the week- at least you can see the bruises!!)











